Thread: How to talk to this cute girl in my college class?

^ that's even worse then the other 2 outcomes

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Originally Posted by loopy

Unless it then leads to "Friend with Benefits" zone....

If only that was possible. lol

Don't do this.

Well I did nothing today again. But before u guys start going off. I chose not to say anything. Before class could not say anything cause she was talking to someone else. And after class I had the chance. But I chose not too, why? Well today it could have been for the mouse we watched in class but I had no feelings for her at all today. Not good or bad feelings. So I just decided not to say anything. I was nervouse to say something and well I had nothing to talk about expect for the movie. But I did not want to say anything because I did not feel for her at all. Really I was nervous but I had the chance but I did not take it simply because I want to think it over. Should I ask we or no, an really do I like her? Over the weekend anything may happen, but I will no for sure that if after the weekend when I see her again on Tuesday I'm just going to ask her simply if she would like to help me for the mid term on Thursday. Simple as that, if she can help me and we can study together for the mid term.

No as for why I chose to not say anything and just to have her keep on going. Well one I was nervous no doubt about that. But again I did not want to say anything cause I was sure I butcher the conversation. Not only that I just I did not have no feelings at all. What I want to do is over the weekend get some R&R. I don't think I was confident today, but I want to build on that confidence. And I want to see if anything could happen over the weekend. I see that after class she walks to what appears to be to her car cause se goes to the parking or and I the back so either her car or leaves walk home or something. That can very well tell me she does not know anyone like I don't know anyone in this college either. I may have been sort of a wuss today but tues seems like the best day to ask just the last meet before the kid term and to just let it all out. I have been always like this around a girl like. I wait till the last min to do something like this and it ends not going my way. Well come tues when I ask her ill know weather or not she may be the one for me. I want to clear my mind over the weekend n build on my confidence. And next time when I go to class, before during or after class one of those times ill just ask her right out of the blue. Well not out of the blue more like why u guys suggested saying to ask her for help

Also the movie we saw was emotional and she was very emotional of the movie too. I jus want to ask her now more than ever. But I'll wait, why cause it can be either too late by then or not. I just want to build my confidence and then ask her. Plus it seems better to ask cause the test will be after that meet.

What do you guys think I'm taking an awful big risk waiting even longer. And if I can and do ask ask her next time by guys think that after the mid term on the Thursday that I should be able to ask her for a night our together or something like watcha movie etc? Because after next week it's spring break. And I want to ask by then.

Btw u guys give so much grey advice and I feel that I let u guys down by not taking action. But next time it's do or die and I'll do it, and what makes me so sure that ill be able to ask next time? I could say this now and next time i might wuss out again, but no next time I will because after class when I saw walking away to her car or whatever. I kinda could see that she may have been nervous too. Cause she walks pretty fast, it also because it finally clicked into my head when I saw her, she possibly know no one in this college. And I don't no anyone either, so why would she say no to me if she already feels lonely. These were 2 tries I used to ask her but the third time is a charm and well I'll do it next time.

Dude, you think too much lol

Ya I noticed. This is the same reason why I can't do it cause I think about it too much. Now I am not going to think about it and just see how it goes next time. And then I will just go for it without thinking about it just going to go for it. I keep letting the fear of being nervous of whatshe will say get to me. I just don't know why I can't do it. Something stops me from doing it and now I'm just wanting to find out what it is and stop it and just make my sled the much more free and be able to ask with our hesitation. It's so so so so hard to ask her n u don't know why

Originally Posted by BlackGT97

Dude, you think too much lol

but actually.... shes just a girl.. she isn't anymore special than you or me or the other girl that sits behind you in class.

if the case is that she doesn't know anyone else in the class or school for that matter, and she is leaving right away.. i see that as bad.. like she has a boy and doesn't need to know anyone else in the school. have you checked her hand for a ring? hahah that's the first thing i gotta do with every girl at my school to make sure they aren't engaged... it stupid how many girls my age and even younger are getting engaged. my college is known for the girls getting 'a ring by spring'.

Well i know no ring, and ya that gave me the thought too but something tells me she does not. She is on her phone sort of a lot but mainly cause she has no one to talk to. I know that cause im on my phone cause there is no one to talk too. Well ill just have to find out next time we meet.

And hey my buddy told me this just a llittle while ago and got me in a good mood. He says that this is college, not high school, college. And he said that in college girls would rather have a guy like me out of the blue talk to them and want to hang out with them more than they would in high school. Why, cause in college its study study study and no time for socializing. That got me thinking that maybe i could be making it easier for her by asking her to study and maybe out on a date later. What do you guys think, that makes me more motivated but i need that motivation like 2 hours ago.

What do you guys think, will i have one more and LAST chance on tues?

I think your over thinking the whole situation. Just be yourself and talk to her. Worse she can say is no. You'll always second guess yourself for not going for it if you don't.



And make sure your not a awkward squid

Ya, im going to not second guess and just do it.

Will it be akward if i asked her if she want to hang out over spring break? Thats asking her the last day of class before the break. Thats also asking after asking her to study toegether.

I think about it to much and im going to just forget about it until i see her next time, and next time ill ask her kindly if she could help me and would like to study together for the mid term. What do you guys think just go for it and do that and dont look back all the way?

It wouldn't be awkward to ask her if she's looking forward to spring break and if she had any plans...then you ask if she wanted to hang out over SB.

So is it a good idea to ask what she may do over the break, and then if shes not busy, n does NOT have a BF already. Then ask her if she like to hang out, go for a walk or watch a movie? There are lots off cool movies coming out during the break so that idea really sticks out to me.

edit: Oh and tell her if she want to do stuff and get to know each other more?

Hey. Hey. Hey. After all this you just let go?

Its ok man, don't think on it too much, let her touch your penis. If it doesn't work out for you both then find another girl who'll touch it.

There's too many girls to stress this much over if she is "The One". Let her touch your penis.

step 1: grow balls.

step 2: talk.

jesus ****ing christ. it isn't rocket scientist. if my 400 pound ass can land *****es, i'm sure you can.

Originally Posted by Erics00LS

step 1: grow balls.

step 2: talk.

jesus ****ing christ. it isn't rocket scientist. if my 400 pound ass can land *****es, i'm sure you can.

^^^ this guy... knows whats up....

get her number and start talking to her that way if you don't got the balls to do it in person..

Some of you guys make this out to be so easy. You have to realize that some people are just naturally very shy. I have always been shy and akward around any new people, especially women, so I know how the kid feels. If he is not comfortable, he is not comfortable. There is nothing wrong with that.

Originally Posted by stealthee

Some of you guys make this out to be so easy. You have to realize that some people are just naturally very shy. I have always been shy and akward around any new people, especially women, so I know how the kid feels. If he is not comfortable, he is not comfortable. There is nothing wrong with that.

i'm not saying there is something wrong.. i'm just saying what id do in his shoes if it was me.