Thread: Help with girls?

Originally Posted by TheOtherNick

True story

OK,

Conversation topics.

NOT SCHOOL! Maybe something around school, but not stuff like classes and whatnot (unless she loves to talk about history or something, idk)

Talk about her friends, if she has a job FOR SURE talk to her about that... girls love to talk about the people they hate at work (then you can start making fun of her, and point out people around you at that point, use your environment as much as you can).

Not a great first question, but asking about family is usually a great one. Brothers sisters, etc.. usually they suggest the parents situation (its divorce 50% of the time remember, so dont really ask about it unless you can do it with some authority).

DONT ask about the past, past boyfriends, past experiences work, but only if you are going somewhere with it.

College / career plans are decent, but pretty bland for a highschooler... college guys you can tear this one up usually.

COLD SET CONVERSATION STUFF AKA PICKUP LINES!!!

opinion pickup lines are GREAT for noobs to random conversation, ask ANY opionion on anything... starbux line.. ask about flavors, etc...

"who lies more girls or guys?"

(I dont use these much, so I am a bit short on them). Biggest key to any opening line is to blow off it REALLY fast even if she is into it, so it doesnt look pickupy... go right into a "normal" conversation topic even though it feels really forced and stuff. the idea of the pickup line is just to get the talking started, then sorta trick them into talking about things that make sense.

My cold approach technique is usually very direct along the lines of "I thought you were really pretty/cute/had a great aura/a really cool look and wanted to come talk to you".

No girl can really turn down legitimate compliments... it takes a real ***** to turn down a conversation afterwards too.

Originally Posted by slick2500

Yeah chicks love compliments say something about how you like the way she does her hair. Dont get to into detail like saying you like her shoes cuz she might think your gay or something.

Careful... do NOT look for anything out of them, dont "get weird" about them.. If you cant confidently say a complement, dont say it.

You cant just say a complement, then wait for her to say one back, or try to use it as some sort of crutch... They are just tools for further development, not a "meat and potatoes" conversation piece.

Originally Posted by Fivefingerdeathpunch

never say you look good, nice etc etc.


you gotta say, beautiful, great, fanstastic, wonderful, amazing.

words are much less important than how you say it.

You can say she looks like a wildebeest and still have it be a complement if you have the right tone / style about it. (not suggesting this, just saying it 'could' be done.)

hippo have you talked to this girl yet?

Originally Posted by Explicit_Spade

Tell her that she smells good and that you want your bed to smell like her!

Nice.

Originally Posted by Explicit_Spade

Tell her that she smells good and that you want your bed to smell like her!

On this note.. I may share a weird thing...

If you ever get really sexual with a girl... Letting her know that you are smelling her is a really powerful turn-on.......

Its not my idea, I just learned this one recently....

Originally Posted by darkhorizon

On this note.. I may share a weird thing...

If you ever get really sexual with a girl... Letting her know that you are smelling her is a really powerful turn-on.......

Its not my idea, I just learned this one recently....

Not if she's stinky.

Stinky = gtfo, its not worth it.

Just a thought, she can say yes in person and flake on you later... in person, phone, or text doesn't really matter... It really doesn't increase your odds, if she wants to hang out with you she will no matter what... I think you should have made your move while the novelty was there though...