Well since everyone is being assholes. I actually DO hope you get what you want. lol
I would have talked to them on the phone before I sent them another E-mail. At this point I would tell them you just want your money back. This is why:
-What if the second set you get is just as bad or worse than the first?
-You can get just about any other headers for way less than what you paid.
-Lots of people sell used TOGs.
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