Ok I read the first OP's post. The only thing I can see differently is that you should remove the key and then put the fuse back in. You said you're putting in the fuse and then removing the key? Dunno. Something to try at least.
I already said that too lol.
Originally Posted by Slick2500
As far as I know you only push buttons on the key fob if you are trying to set it up to your car.
And it has been a while since I messed with the bcm, but I think you need to turn the key to off and open the door before you put the fuse back in. Keep the door closed during the programming process.