Ok so I think I have fixed my low beam issues. I tried another relay.. no good. I decided to pull the high beam relay and put it where the low beam relay was .. its exactly the same relay.. still no low beam .. for s**ts and giggles I tried my original relay for the high beams .. it worked !! So I changed both low beam bulbs .. and now .. I have light !!!Woohoo .... i'm not convinced something else isn't going on though as the relay switch worked the first time .. maybe I had a loose wire somewhere .. I dunno but i'll keep an eye on it and post back if I find another issue . .fingers crossed i'm scratching this off as solved .. new bulbs . .what an idiot I feel !!