thats what ddm "says"...my lows flickered with 35w bulbs...relay harness and disable your drls and you shouldnt have any problems with the lights not coming on.
DRL's are honestly the biggest problem here. Theyre not providing you ballasts with enough power to fire the bulbs since the DRL's run at a reduced power to save halogen bulb life. It doesn't work for HID's, it does the opposite