this guys got a really good rep on the forum here. http://www.tripleedgeperformance.com/Home-Page.html a lot of people have used him for rebuilds and parts to be re built.
and your looking at 3 grand easy if not more for a good performance rebuilt. a lot cheaper if you and your dad have the nerve to open it up and change some parts, lots of how to's for changing tranny parts here too. a few guys have rebuilt their own trannys for about 800 bucks. thats all parts and some new upgraded parts too.
if you shop around you can find a lot of these parts either used or new but being sold off for who knows why, but cheaper then new still.
craigslist and ebay will also have some parts for cheap, as well as the parts for sale section here.