I got my HIDs from DDM tuning (google is your friend, but it's something like https://www.ddmtuning.com )
-don't want to look up your specific bulb type, but just use the same bulb type that came factory and you should be just fine, since all you are doing is replacing the bulb and adding a ballast behind it (but it's got about a foot of wire so you can put it anywhere you need to). Get the upgraded harness, it makes life simple, and causes no harm.I'm very happy with my HIDs, especially since they have a lifetime warranty on the bulbs and wiring.
-from what I've read 04+ can't disable the DRLs.... I don't know 100% though. Also not sure what effects that will have on the HIDs, just know that it's not good and may (should) shorten the life of the bulb and/or ballast.
good luck!