I understand what you're saying, but I do believe the SD and the GTX hoods are quite attractive. The GTX hood has NO raise, the intakes are pretty subtle unless you're looking at the car straight on and actually paying attention. The SD hood isn't raised much, but enough to look different.
You could also go for the Cowl hood. You'd get your function and still maintain a pretty stock looking appearance.
All in all, it IS your car, and you should do what you want. I was just throwing out some suggestions.