regardless if something ever happened between me and my wife, my kids are 1st even her daughter that i raised as mine....when relationships don't work, the kids shouldn't have to wait for you to get urself together especially if the donor is a turd. your love life goes on the back burner. Think of it in the kids eyes, mom and dad not together, mom and dad get new byfriend/girlfriend.. opps we're mad and broke up ...finds new "friend".movin together....kid is f'ed up because parent can't evaluate a relationship for ****!!!Kids lose....parent looks for next "friend" ,,viscious cycle.
Originally Posted by badbrad
