Rant!!! Grrrr

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Originally Posted by badbrad

regardless if something ever happened between me and my wife, my kids are 1st even her daughter that i raised as mine....when relationships don't work, the kids shouldn't have to wait for you to get urself together especially if the donor is a turd. your love life goes on the back burner. Think of it in the kids eyes, mom and dad not together, mom and dad get new byfriend/girlfriend.. opps we're mad and broke up ...finds new "friend".movin together....kid is f'ed up because parent can't evaluate a relationship for ****!!!Kids lose....parent looks for next "friend" ,,viscious cycle.

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Yes I so agree with this! My parents are together and I tried SOOO hard to make it work with her dad! I would put up with him leaving us for weeks and sometimes months at a time not calling and then just showing up like nothing happend! I did it for over 6yrs! Then I finally woke up and relized wow! Me and her both don't need that! Again not saying he is a dead beat but he does have issues! Im not miss perfect I guess...I mean he says the reason he don't want to be with me anymore is because I bi*ch to much...welll when I have to BEG you for sex or to look at me..yaaaa....anyways! Thats awhole different story! I love sex..and I apperently am missing some inches for him...:th_shakinghead1:

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Originally Posted by SlowM90

Im not miss perfect I guess...I mean he says the reason he don't want to be with me anymore is because I bi*ch to much...welll when I have to BEG you for sex or to look at me..yaaaa....anyways! Thats awhole different story! I love sex..and I apperently am missing some inches for him...:th_shakinghead1:

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Thats pretty sad indeed I mean i make my old lady beg sometime but thats just fun :th_king-evil:

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Originally Posted by SlowM90

LMAO!!!! This made my night! Let me guess since you don't see a problem in him not contacting me and giving me his number after our daughter had surgery you must be a dad who is far behind in child support?! Anyone who has kids should put them first! He never has and apperently going on 7yrs never will! And get over him?! Again im very far over him did you not read ANYTHING that was posted? Im a HUGE ***** prolly the biggest one you will meet. And it pisses me off that my daughter wants to talk to her dad and I have to call 10 different people just to get him! I could care less to talk to him! Me and him get along GREAT! Hell I still take care of his checking accounts and not sure if you know but he is a welder in a union if I wanted to be a HUGE ***** I would stiff him for child support but I don't cause we get along we have our fights and he even said he was sorry for not giving me his number first and it wasent the fact he didn't give it to me right away it was when I called and he said "How did you get my number" I took that as he didn't want me to have it! He said he was sorry and he didn't mean it that way. The big beef I had was with his crack head cousin running her mouth about crap she didn't know! Saying I was slandering his name in front of our kid! I have been divorced from him for going on 4yrs guess what we have lived together almost all 4yrs! He is like my brother..or a roomate I just so happend to have a kid with. Again what you stated was YOUR opinion and this is mine! Not sure how your parenting skills are but I will make DAMN sure anyone who has my child as a number they can reach me! Soooooo callme a ***** or whatever I don't see where I was in the wrong for being pissed off at him.:th_king-normal:

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The comment that provoked that was uncalled for and a dick move in a situation like this.

Theres a difference between being a ***** and being a mother, and that guys just too immature to see the difference.

Sorry to hear all this **** had to happen.

my wife only has to mention sex....i'm always ready. ruff situation though. good luck with it.