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yea, i guess i fall into the category of a nice guy... this always seems to happen to me, its f***ing annoying especially wen i REALLY like a girl. i dont see why they wont just go for a guy that treats them well... and still knows how to have fun and all that good stuff
The hotter the girl the more of a cocky a-hole you have to be. They are so used to having everyone be nice to them, when your cocky and don't care they will wonder why and that draws them to you.
I TOTALLY know exactly where you're comin from Jess. It's so annoying when you spend a whole night talkin to a guy when at the end of the night he's like "so hey you wanna come back to my place?" and you say "no I just met you tonight" and you never see or hear from them again!!! UGH sooo annoying. And then you think you meet a nice guy and they turn out to be like a crazy jealous clinger blah! SOOOO sick of it all
WOW!!!! I missed alot today. First of all Jess... Absolutlely DON'T go lez!!!!!!!!! You sound like a great girl. Just remember we (all men) are pigs and we are stupid!!! We just vary in degrees. We cannot evwer figure out what women want. I'm really glad you want us to be up front. And we always want at least one thing, but usually more like 4 or 5 things. We want an incredible sex partner, a best friend, a cool friend we can hang with someone who knows whats wrong before we do, someone who likes cars NOT shopping and other things we dont know yet. I'm not a partier either. But my girls are everything to me and would do anything in the world for them as I know you would for yours. It will happen, DONT settle for any random guy. When you meet HIM you will kow it. If you're not sure... It's not him. Not to say that guy isn't cool to hang with and really exciting to BE with. May not be mister right... but will work for right now. Got that one from my friend Niki. She is the direct type as well. But she seems to attract major losers. I try to tell her, but she doesn't listen.
However if you need to talk. Don't hesitate to drop me a line.
Anthony
Sorry to here this Jess. I like you alot, I consider you a friend and I hate to see you going through this ****. I wish you lived closer to me, Abby and I would hang with ya and bull**** with ya. I look forward to drinking a beer with ya at Branson.
Hell I have a good friend thats in his late 30s looking for a good women with or without kids. He's kinda had a checkered past but has cleaned up and is a really good guy. He's a hardcore car guy and actully has a few project cars on his land (68 Lincoln Coni, 70 Galaxie XL 429 BB, 87 T-type, 74 Road Runner, etc), he'd fall in love with a women like you, I guarantee it. He always wonders how in the hell I found mine, which is a car gal as well. He can't find any women worth a damn.
I'll admit, I was a tramp at one time, I was looking for one thing and I got it. Then again, the women I chased then we're willing to give it to me so it was very easy. One day I met the right one. I wanted in her panties, i'll admit, but I wanted to get to know her too. When I got to know her and knew she was into cars as well as her brother (which is a good friend of mine now believe it or not) my jaw was on the floor. I was afraid to make a move! We talked and hung out some for a few months and finally one night she made a move on me (made out), i'm glad she did because I'll admit I DIDN'T have the balls to do it because I didn't want to screw up the friendship. Well one thing led to another and here we are today to make a long story short. Now I have a best friend, with the same car interests who actully encourages me to do what I want, and plus I get in her panties all the time! LOL. Seriously though, thats my true story.
I wonder if one of your guy friends is a chicken **** like I was and afriad to "busta move"? Food for thought girl, you may wanna pay closer attention to your "friends".......
Well this dude just kinda proved me right! He talked to me to day and when it came time for us to hang out...Havent heard from him since! SCREW HIM!! I gave him a "chance" because my friends told me he liked me well screw him! And I know what you mean by falling in love with your bestfriend. I still have MAJOR feelings for my x...he was my friend for over 3yrs..and He even told me he never thought in a million years he would EVER get a girl like me! He is a MAJOR gearhead! He is in Wyotech right now! We have a blast together and the sex is great...but he has issues...And well I don't see my self being with him for the rest of my life because of his problems that he STILL hasent changed.But ya I agree with you guys..there is SOMEONE out there...But a thing I have been noticing I have been hit on by 7 guys the past 4days and they are ALL under 21!!! LOL. And then when I go out to the bar/clubs I get hit on by older men like older like over 45! LOL Can we not just meet in the middle?! LOLOL
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