Well this dude just kinda proved me right! He talked to me to day and when it came time for us to hang out...Havent heard from him since! SCREW HIM!! I gave him a "chance" because my friends told me he liked me well screw him! And I know what you mean by falling in love with your bestfriend. I still have MAJOR feelings for my x...he was my friend for over 3yrs..and He even told me he never thought in a million years he would EVER get a girl like me! He is a MAJOR gearhead! He is in Wyotech right now! We have a blast together and the sex is great...but he has issues...And well I don't see my self being with him for the rest of my life because of his problems that he STILL hasent changed.But ya I agree with you guys..there is SOMEONE out there...But a thing I have been noticing I have been hit on by 7 guys the past 4days and they are ALL under 21!!! LOL. And then when I go out to the bar/clubs I get hit on by older men like older like over 45! LOL Can we not just meet in the middle?! LOLOL