You must be at the wrong bars then!! lol
Don't let all this get to ya. It sucks but its times like these where you re-evaluate what you want and what you should work at to get that. I was in the same situation before and let it get to my head and ended up being unhappy for a while. When I was unhappy and I think I still am, I came across a few nice girls and I think they saw that. It ruined whatever i had going for me which wasn't much to begin with, lol but I never tried hard enough and I don't blame them for it. Just don't give up or let it get to ya is what I'm trying to say... lol fml