well saw that you posted and my hopes got high.. i wouldn't say they were completely crushed because you couldn't help that the teacher dismissed class the way they did. props on talking to A GIRL at least today. see its not as bad as it seems. that girl was definitely nervous though and probably very surprised that you even talking. as i wrote a few pages back.. if you know her name... use social media to your advantage and add her on fb or twitter or something. start a convo about anything with her that would be a mutual subject to talk about (class, mid term, school, etc.) the last two girls that i got numbers from is doing this way. one i met the night before and chatted with for maybe 2 minutes and she added me on twitter (granted we both were flirting pretty hardcore) and what not and on my way home for spring break the next day i messaged her with a question that we talked about the night before and chatted all the way home and eventually said hey, you should text me and here's my number.. they'll usually text you or like this girl did.. she wouldn't text me first.. so i said give me your number than.. and then we chatted the whole spring break week and are now gonna be hanging out soon.. its not hard at all.. another another one too with a different girl.. it was her birthday and i only talked and was around her for maybe 5 minutes and i messaged her happy birthday! and she started messaging me back.. granted though that i got inside info that she had a thing for me and what not so i thought i'd see how that went and after messaging on twitter for a while i said you should text me instead and she texted me 2 minutes later and wing go! i'd say it doesn't get easier than that... and especially if you have trouble and get nervous with face-to-face talking with girls.. go this route to start. i'm a communications major also.. so take that how you want....
as far you are saying you wanna find 'the one'.. dude.. you are young.. have fun in college. single is fun and i know having someone to be yours and locked down is a lot of fun too. but don't be so worried about finding the one.. see how different girls are and what you like and don't like.. have some experiences and some memories.. if you do find a girl that you just love and have a good feeling about... keep her around and make things work and sure.. she might eventually turn into 'the one'. its college.. you have a lot of opportunities to have fun and make memories.. don't worry about just picking one girl.. don't worry about anything. i'd say you should try and get a number from one of the two before break.. and if they aren't going somewhere for spring break.. and they are close enough.. sure.. you maybe could see if they would want to hang out sometime... in my case.. this girl lived in Wisconsin and it was a hell of a long ways away to go.. so i just said.. we should hang out when we get back to the cities and school and just be in communication with them through break. ask them questions. call it middle schoolish or whatever but we've taken turns texting questions back and forth.. its great to get to know each other that way.. tell them to ask you any questions.. show them you are willing to open up to them and share some deep stuff with them after texting a while. just get to know them.. and absorb everything you talk about.. like said in a few posts above... absorb every bit of info because you can come back and use that when communicating with them. girls love when you can recall and use info about them in convos. i could tell you more and more stories of how i did swing with the women but i'm not gonna jack your thread.. i've hooked up with about 10 girls in less than a year at college.
but again. props to chatting with a female today.. not bad.. base off of today and get better tomorrow. "practice" on other girls if you wanna call it that.. any other girls in classes.. sit next to them and just have conversations with them.. don't worry about what they think of you or nervous.. just have fun in college.. you won't know what you really like unless you experience it.
depends on the girl.. some would be fine with it other might be creeped out... if there is vaild reason (homework, study, or they are really into you.) they'll usually fork it up. if they don't.. don't worry.. be persistent.. my first girlfriend (ex now) i pursued for over a year in highschool .. i wouldn't advise you to do what i did then . girls like a chase and you might have to give it to them if they are something you really want.Originally Posted by SF9777
