Ok, ive research this through many sites and ive seen on forums people ask and hey there is a off topic section on the forum here so i thought i ask cause i really need the advice.
There is this girl i sit next to in my college class, it has been a month already in this class, Ive grown more and more attracted to her and she is so gorgeous. Well to me that is, she seems nice to and i have not felt this way about any girl since high school 2 years ago. Anyway i need help on how i can talk to her, im such a wuss and nervous too. Today i actually had the guts to talk to her before class when we were outside the class room waiting for the instructor. I ask her about the essay we did and stuff and when i approached her (The hardest part, surprised i was able to do it) I said hey and she smiled like a pretty big smile (I think it was big i kinda forgot since i was so NERVOUS) and said hi/hey too. i asked her about the essay and stuff and had a little conversation and now that i think of it she said a couple of things that i was so stupid to not talk about like her work and stuff. I always listen to people and talk less but this one time when i needed to listen the most my dumb butt was trying to talk more. She seem to like talking to me i think, she is always alone and does not know anyone really i think. During class there was no time to talk cause we discuss stuff we read as a class (I got English class BTW).
I sit next to her but its like the desks are in rows and i sit next to her but like her seat is a little bit more back than mine and when i look over to my right i can see her table and the chair of the person sitting right in front. I kinda got to turn my head a little bit more if i want to talk but im still so close. During class today i can see very well from the corner of my eye that she might have been bored as she was brushing her hair with her hand a lot. One time during the class today i can see in the corner of my eye that she was looking at me or at my direction but could not tell if she was looking at me or just in the direction. She was messing with her hair when looking at me, and then when i turn my head a little bit she moved away. I was too nervous to turn around to look so i just kept looking like i was listening to the teacher. Then after class i had the chance to say something to her but my dumb butt did not take it and left. Again i was so nervous and did not know what to say, i wanted to ask how can i be able to talk to her more and about what and how. If she was interested in talking, i think she was, before class then should i just go for it and try to talk to her more and more? Its really hard to do so and im shy and get so dang nervous. AND we only have this class Tues and Thurs.
So when i got to class on Tues how can i talk to her more and about what so we can be like friends and maybe like later on take things a step further. I hate that its only two days a week but its better than none at all. I really like her and want to talk to her soon cause in two weeks is spring break and i want to be able to ask her if we could hang out or do something then, and not wait so long and also want to get her numbeer too. SO ya i really need help from all you guys on the site that can help. And Girls to, what better way to get advice than from another girl.
