Jabba the Hut got *****es.... and hes a fat worm. You can do better.
Shy is a state of mind, just look at it like this, if it doesn't work out, you can always do better. She's not the end-all be-all of the women of the planet. Just relax and chit-chat, you may find out you don't like her, there is always that possibility. Just get to know here and see how things go.