
Originally Posted by
LeadfootCJ7
You have gotten some great advice here. I used to be similar to you around girls. Luckily I started noticing pretty early in college that when I was just relaxed and acted like myself it went fine. I tend to joke and be funny and girls loved that. When I relaxed that came through.
Another key thing I learned is ask them questions and LISTEN (don't spend the whole time telling them about you and trying to convince them you are awesome). Don't be creepy and try to find out every little thing about them, but ask a question and let them talk. Make note (mentally) of what they tell you. Later when you remember something, they love it.