Sometimes when emergencies come up, and a loved one is passing away, you don't think about other things but family, and nothing is more important than family. I think I'd be upset if I came back and found all this going on.
I ordered something from him too, but I'm not bent out of shape over it. It's keeping an engine from going into my car, but you just roll with the punches.
Very well put. I also ordered some s/c oil from him, but I can deal with it till he gets back.