Again....careful. 74 days? You're guilty of doing the same thing, so I don't think you should be jumping into this argument.
Sometimes when emergencies come up, and a loved one is passing away, you don't think about other things but family, and nothing is more important than family. I think I'd be upset if I came back and found all this going on.
I ordered something from him too, but I'm not bent out of shape over it. It's keeping an engine from going into my car, but you just roll with the punches.