Thank you all for the warm welcome. I have a feeling im going to like this place. And thanks for all the links, i've been up all night doing tons of research now that you guys have pointed me in the right direction. I cringe at the thought of my wallet becoming slimmer because my woman has no idea what the word maintenance is.
She bought the car brand new, and took it to them ( dealer ) everytime it needed something. When they told her she needs to pay for it after the warranty, she stopped going. Fast forward to today, her excuse is " well no one ever told me i'd need to replace and repair stuff, i mean it's run fine this whole time, so i just didn't do anything".
I will say this though. The car has no codes, and that is a shocker to me, being that it's 8 years old.