I am thinking that this is the case: It seems like it does depend on options, and I think toasty and archemedes figured it out. Rap may be retained (sometimes) and if it is the h/u does not stay on, just the accesories. Which most people don't even know or care that the lights are on the rap system too, they just automatically think of radio.
Wow finally a forum that has good debate and convo in the audio section! I think this is a good sign for me, haha.