The small plug is where the 3 are at on the radio. the only 3 u need Is In that plug. You can noticablly see the difference the big plug twice the size of the small.

at the receiver I haven't looked but there are no duplicate wire colors on either plug. Those 3 colors are the ones your usIng. Don't worry about what pin or plug just use those 3 wires.

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