found the problem, its the lock out switch for the back window child locks, i took the cluster of switches off the d/s door and tuned it over and gave it the magical wrap with the handle of a screwdriver and hit the other switch and it worked. the lock out switch is so loose its almost falling apart.
so ill be just replacing the whole cluster of switches as planned some time ago, as they are all torn up and ugly.
edit: i just wedged a piece of cardboard next to the switch, and it seems to be doing the trick, so thats my fix till i find the new cluster of switches for the d/s door. thanks for the help guys.