okay, well i have narrowed it down to the spark plugs i think. i noticed that the middle front boot was not in as far as the rest. i replaced that wire. its not doing it as bad but it is def. still doing it. i used app606 autolie double platnium plugs. man this sux. i think the wires i bought may just be ****. they were $20 at advanced. xact was the brand here is a link
Advance Auto Parts: Search Results for spark plug wire

hope this helps