So after all this I found out the connector on the passenger side was disconnected after I had changed out my serpentine belt.. I had looked and found a wiring diagram here so this may help someone else:
http://www.diakom.ru/CAR/Pontiac/199...RAMS/19825.pdf
I printed that page out and started to follow the wires and decided that I would just check under the radiator and found the connector unplugged. Thinking damn no way this is the issue. Got back up and looked down on the side where the belt runs and I saw it was disconnected from the harness that runs to the EBCM.
Turned on car and no lights so fixed now so very glad about that but sad my dummy self didn't notice before.
The plastic that covers the side of the engine from the wheel wheel is what made it hard to see it disconnected.
