Ok I might have to uninstall everything and lay it all out. There is a blue plug on both sides on the "Original HID harness" Basically you plug it in on both sides to the stock wiring harness. Then you plug in the ballasts with the single plug and take the ballast plugs to the HID lights.

It's really simple, and yes i had to reverse the power plugs to get them to work originally on the ballasts. This whole issue began when i got fed up with trying to get both of my lights to ignite and stay on. I got fed up and bought a relay. This is when all the headaches began.