LOL! Here are the facts, your car is modded.. untuned.. with meth injection...
Her car is stock... tuned... and obv she can drive.

You need to tune, loose the meth, check your timing and make sure your car is running right. Then go to a back road, practice launches and rolls w/o spinning... Then race.

Get a cam, go IC, go E85, do something other than meth.