Success! I am so happy. Thank you for the suggestion of tilting the engine.
I had to disconnect the exhaust, remove the cooling fans and the air boot in order to be able to tilt the engine enough.
Then I had to remove the 02 sensor, that weird useless bracket on the back of the engine and moved the heater hoses to make room to work. None of this was difficult but took a lot time to figure out with strapping the engine back and forth about ten times.
Now I had lot's of room but could still not see the plug hole unless I stuck my head between the firewall and the engine. The ceramic was already gone because I started the engine earlier to blow out the ceramic core.
I heated the plug with MAP gas, hit it with PB blaster and cooled it with liquid c02 from holding a can of canned air upside down. I did this twice.
I made a sample of what was stuck in the block so that I knew what I was working with and could choose the best tool for the extraction. I purchased an extra plug and ran a hacksaw around it just below the hex. This leaves the taper seat and the threads. The ceramic core just pulls right out with the top of the plug. It was obvious that the metal was junk and that a #4 Easy-out was the tool that I could get the deepest and get a good bite. When using easy outs it's important choose the one that gets the deepest to minimize the chance of breaking it.
Now I hammered in a quality #4 EasyOut into the plug threads. Please don't use a cheap one unless you want it to strip or break.
Now the problem is how to turn the EasyOut with enough torque to break the plug threads loose because this will take more than it took to break the plug. The typical T handle tap holder will twist into a pretzel. Don't waste your time or your tool. It turns out that the square end of a #4 EasyOut is 1/4". The ratchet side of some 1/4" drive sockets fit on the end of the EasyOut and some don't. I found a 1/4" drive 1/2" 6 point socket that fit and then inserted a coupling nut (1" long threaded hex that has 1/2" OD) into the socket so that I could put a tool on it. There are other options but this one was the best way to get big tools on a little EasyOut.
It came out with no problem. Reassembly took about 45 minutes. I drove dads car back to him, smacked him and took my truck home.
I love it when things come together. Thank you again for a suggestion that saved me from pulling the head or the engine.
