You will make it there and back fine assuming everything is in good working order. Do you have a Heads Up Display (HUD) with a transmission temp readout? Also, I've heard that some older grand prix models do not have a "hardened 4th gear" or something to that effect. If you have the hardened 4th, then I don't think you'd have to keep it in 3rd gear unless the car starts shifting between the two gears frequently.
I would disagree that towing is easier on a car than hauling weight. If I were hauling 1000lbs in my trunk, the shape and aerodynamics of my car don't change. If I am towing 1000lbs in the form of an open trailer with 2 motorcycles on it, a couple tires and gas cans, I've negatively changed the aerodynamics of my car and will therefore increase the constant load on my transmission. This is more and more true as speed increases - such as highway travel.
I would argue that if I were to put this 1000lbs into my trunk I could still achieve close to or above 30mpg. While trailering with the setup mentioned above, I actually see about 21mpgs.