Ok, I take it a troll is someone stupid who doesnt know about cars, this is my first forum so whatever you wanna call me, thats fine... I thought this was a place to come for help when you dont know what to do, but I see you guys just ignore and abuse people who dont know and make mistakes.
For anybody that cares I went out and took the transmission pan off again and there were a lot of metal shavings, and some pretty decent sized chunks of metal, actual chunks laying in the pan... so
I guess my transmission really is damaged a bit, Im gunna put some new fluid in tonight and see if it helps things.