How to talk to this cute girl in my college class?

[SF9777]

You guys make me want to go for it, really great advice and next time im going for it. I just need to keep on building that confidence.

[Erics00LS]

Ok. Dude. No offense. Stop being a *****. Go for it.

[Schmidty]

You guys make me want to go for it, really great advice and next time im going for it. I just need to keep on building that confidence.

you've said that the 3 times...
we have gave you all the advice we can and told you what you should do.. now you just gotta do it...

Ok. Dude. No offense. Stop being a *****. Go for it.

.. but actually.... its killing me..

[stealthee]

Ok. Dude. No offense. Stop being a *****. Go for it.

You should stop being an ass. It is not that simple for some people. It's just like telling someone who is afraid of snakes to go pick up the snake that is under the house.

[Schmidty]

You should stop being an ass. It is not that simple for some people. It's just like telling someone who is afraid of snakes to go pick up the snake that is under the house.

*exaggerated for point of emphasis*

[stealthee]

Its not an exaggeration. It can cause panic attacks on some people.

[stealthee]

Social anxiety - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[jakobkay]

Just do what I do. "Hey my names Jakob" then slowly start taking your pants off. Works everytime . Get her name and add her on Facebook lol

[Schmidty]

i guess i've never struggled with that nor i do think its a real problem....

[stealthee]

It's not a real problem? It is indeed a real problem. I struggle with it.

Hell there are people out there that are afraid of mushrooms. Sounds silly, but it is real, just as real as social anxiety.

[Schmidty]

well then stop asking normal non-professional people on a forum what you should do and then get mad at their answers and ideas they give you.

[stealthee]

I'm not the one asking questions. I am just backing the kid up because people are giving him a hard time and calling him a ***** acting like its not hard. For some people its not, true, but for some people its almost torture.

[Schmidty]

k... my opinion is still the same... this

Ok. Dude. No offense. Stop being a *****. Go for it.

[stealthee]

Encouraging him is one thing, calling him names will only hurt his confidence even more.

[Schmidty]

after having some good chili for supper.. and in a better mood.. i agree. my apologizes..

[Erics00LS]

You should stop being an ass. It is not that simple for some people. It's just like telling someone who is afraid of snakes to go pick up the snake that is under the house.

And you're just as bad. There's no excuse to be afraid to TALK to the opposite sex

[Erics00LS]

If I can, he can.

[Schmidty]

that is not you... no way.. hahahahah

[Schmidty]

actually the easiest thing to do... make a small talk with a girl.. they add you on tweet/facebook/intagram.. which ever.. a few days later.. you hit them with a message expanding off the short convo you had before and the chat continues on from there. tell her that texting would be easier than facebook messaging back and forth.. same with tweeter PMing back and forth.. and now you have her number and you can text all the time.. say that stupid way of doing it but i've had luck with the last 5 girls i've hooked up with doing this... all of them turned out to be 'not my type' so the search continues...

[87IROCZOWNER69]

Its not an exaggeration. It can cause panic attacks on some people.

I back you up on this, I get panic attacks everytime I get a phone call....I mean I absolutely hate talking on the phone yet I really have no problem talking to people in person. I am getting better but I still hate making calls.

But on the other hand OP does need to either talk to her or leave it alone, no need in dragging this out.