Ya it right, but all this stupid negativity just starts to run across my thoughts. My friend mention to be a long time ago something that I should really be thinking about. He told me to think why would a girl not want me. He told me and lots of people back in high school told me countless times that I was so so nice. I never have or had an intention for being mean Nor did I ever thought people think I'm nice. My friend told me I'm a really good listener. I help people a lt in class on stuff weather it's school related or personal. He told me that I don't quit and I always am able to do things that he couldn't. He told me I was smart and that I as fun to talk to and hang out with. Why would a girl not want that he say. Now when I think about it I may not be very attractive or a model like my friend said. But I gt a great prrsonalitly. He made great sense when he said " you think girls want a very hot guy that they can only look at or a guy who is close to that and can help them , be nice to them, make them laugh, care for them and other stuff." He said what u guys say now and hell I'm going to do it next time. But this time I need something to motivate me. I need to be able to be confident and well I need help not choking at the last min