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**REDCRAPGP** · 02-01-2013

Sounds like he needs to ask the owner if it comes to that. Apologize but you've already made plans and he cant expect you to cancel to cover his shift.

**danielle15** · 02-01-2013

Yeah, I told him right away that we already had plans and he gave me the guilt trip. Really dude?
I doubt I'm getting engaged, so his is a little more important but plans are plans...

I'm just going to feel super super bad if the owners won't cover for him. Cuz that's just the way I am.

**Below Average Joe** · 02-01-2013

oh well. proposing on valentines day is tacky anyway. she doesn't know its coming so she won't miss it...ya know.

**danielle15** · 02-01-2013

Yeah...that's what I think too. But what do I know.
He got divorced in May, started dating this girl in September (mind you he didn't know her before this) and had the ring bought in early December. Now, I know that comes with some relationships quick like that. But he just got divorced and will be engaged within a year of doing such. If it were me, I'd be taking a step back and saying whoa...

**REDCRAPGP** · 02-01-2013

Too soon D. I have a buddy that was the same way..got divorced..dated a girl within 2 months after it was finalist then come to find out they're engaged. Was only dating for a few months. Whatever happen to taking the time to really get to know someone and making sure you want to spend the rest of your life with that person.

**TLSheff** · 02-01-2013

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You don't marry the rebound girl!!! He's an idiot and that is a tacky cliche. 99% of girls want something different and somewhat original these days, we see too many cliche proposals and most girls want to be "special". He's setting himself up for Divorce #2, he just doesn't know it.

**danielle15** · 02-01-2013

Exactly! I'm happy for him and all, they seem really happy together, but damn...slow down.
I've been with mine for 6.5 years and I don't have a ring yet, so I'm probably just bitter....

But all of us at work think he's a little crazy for doing it so soon. I just hope it works out for them, he is a really nice guy and I'd hate to see him go thru it twice.
A guy Lee works with is proud of the fact that he got married, divorced and re-married all within 14 months....How can someone be proud of that?
*sorry if I offend anyone*

If Lee ever proposes...I hope he does it just out of the blue and not tied to a Holiday. I'd be happy either way, I just would prefer it not be related to one of those days.

**Below Average Joe** · 02-01-2013

I proposed on July 4th at a family gathering. i knelt down in the mud because it was raining in fron of her entire family. We will be married for 6 years this year. We had been dating for 3 years and were engaged for another year. It has been a wild ride thats for sure.

Your coworker is not too smart D.

**TLSheff** · 02-01-2013

I've been with mine for just over 5yrs now, we've lived together for over 2 and still perfectly happy. She will get a ring soon, but the ideal one she wants will push about $4,000 and since I'm the only one with a job (she's full time nursing student and I told her to focus on school so she can pass without job stress) money is tight and I can't swing it. I could get a cheaper one and she would say yes regardless, I know it, but I want everything perfect because I don't plan to have to do this again.
Plus I want her to be speechless, not yelling because I got a cheap ring lol.

**Sandman** · 02-01-2013

Now I find myself looking at old Triumphs again. After my return comes in and I pay off my loan and do a couple of things to the car I might be able to pick up a cheap project...

**danielle15** · 02-01-2013

I got out of working valentines day! Whoo!

**dsmuts** · 02-01-2013

I'll probably have to work I haven't had a day off since jan 1st.

**SlowNA06** · 02-01-2013

Tell him there's another Valentine's Day coming around next year.

But seriously, any woman that marries a guy that manages his life so poorly that he forgot to ask off work in advance to propose to her deserves whatever she's getting herself into. They can be trite and pitiful together.

**E IN v Y** · 02-01-2013

Friend zoned hawrd!

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**GTP in RTP** · 02-01-2013

Congrats to Jteske88 for GPONA Feb COTM.
I guess our votes helped.

**Logan541** · 02-01-2013

Originally Posted by brandonl2000

Well today was one long hard day. had a rude awakening at 8am, two sheriffs came by. they had court ordered evictions. they tried to postpone it but prosecution wouldnt allow it. so yeah they set my **** out on the street. didn't give me time to pack or anything. I was so upset and confused I had no idea what to do. But I got the important stuff in my car and my family showed up with trucks and trailers and we got it all. But yah.. I was so angry I just didn't even know WHAT to pack.
I could rant all night long about it. But yeah I cried like a baby. I did okay until they started pulling my stuff out and then I had already grabbed my money and wallet and deodorant and toiletries and stuff. And I grabbed my uncle's ashes and the waterworks started.
THEN, after we load a uhaul and 4 vehicles, everything was out of the house and it hit me I just started balling in the middle of the road. It was so intense, my mom and grandmom just held me I balled in front of the crew, the sheriffs, everyone.
It was pretty sad, but I've come to terms with it and I'm staying at my mom's mom's house until I get ready to head north. but yeah, that's all for today. I'm gonna miss my little house

Brandon,

Nothing wrong with crying, hell even John Wayne admitted he cried. I been praying and still will. I know it's not easy but think of it as the start of a new adventure and a chance to try and discover new things, if you really feel you hit bottom, well that's a good thing because if you are down and out you only have one direction you can head in and that's up. One day you can sit back and say; "look what I came through and look what I showed them all." Tomorrow, have a toast and sing a song to the good times you had there, then sing a song and drink a toast to the better times yet to come.

**brandonl2000** · 02-01-2013

Yep. Today I had surgery. Talk about a long damn day. I'm sore, and they told me they were gonna get me some percocet but at the last minute he said no to the pain meds and no to the nausea medicine. I was like well you ass, so my grandad donated some of his pain pills so I will survive.
But yep, I need to catch up on rest and gpf. Just can't stay up long enough

Thank you everyone for your kind words <3

**brandonl2000** · 02-01-2013

Oh and I forgot to mention, I quit supe****s. I went in there and just explained what happened, apologized for short notice and everything and yeah. It's a done deal I'm gone. Such a relief.

**PontiacL32** · 02-01-2013

I bet that is a relief, it always sounded like they were b***** anyway. Wish you a fast recovery from your surgery and will continue to pray for you, brandon.