My dad didn't teach me a lot and let's say you and I were similar. I would bring the car to someone. I met a guy who is now a good buddy that was a mechanic, hung out with him etc. Learned just by being around. That's not the only way though. If you want to learn, write ups etc etc can help a lot. As can asking questions and being willing.
I've taught a few friends that most would think unlikely to work on their own cars. Most of that teaching was via a forum. Start with some basics and build up your confidence. There is never too many questions when it comes to learning.
