I was wrong. Apparently, it was the cat. I just had multiple problems going at the same time making this hard to diagnose. Drove it another 180miles before the cat re-clogged itself to the point I couldn't keep the engine running. Cooled back down, ran fine. Cut the cat, gutted it. We'll try again. I can't remember when I had such a problem child of a car. This week it's throwing a MAF code. I have 2 of those sitting around so I'll swap that out. Running out of things to replace, thankfully.