ok so i dug in a bit and decided to pull the cps and ckps and icm harness out and check it more thoroughly...come to find that the ground to the block off the harness took very little effort to break the tab...im really hoping this is the problem...im waiting for my valve cover gasket set to get here so i can get the new ones in before i put the coil bracket back in and check everything out...decided what the hell and painted the valve covers while they are off just to give it a lil cleaner look...once i get it back together we shall see if this little wire was causing all my issues...