Thanks for all the help so far guys!
I have to put the re-assembly on hold until I get my new UIM gasket form RockAuto.... it's on the way..
And I get back from a trip I am going on .....
Hopefully the second one they send is the right one .....
You can see why there is some confusion about which one is the right one, Felpro has two different gasket designs
with the same PN ,,,, This Amazon link shows the two ..
Amazon.com: felpro ms96789: Automotive
I will let you know how it all goes when I get finished.....