Yeah, disconnecting the battery again didn't do anything. I also called my orig tranny shop and he still maintains there is nothing wrong with the trans after I told him everything about the TPS and the change in symptoms. He even gave me two referals to other trans shops so I can get second/third opinions. He says what I'm describing sounds like a bad misfire. I still don't know one way or the other. Never in my life have I wished for a check engine light so that I had some kind of direction (aside from just cracking the trans open).
So I might try looking at the spark plugs just for kicks, and will probably take the car to some tranny shops and see what they say. Yesterday was kind of crazy so I didn't have time to get the car ready to take in to a shop this morning so it's just going to have to sit for today (which sucks because I saw gas prices went up and I'm still driving my 14 MPG Jeep 40 miles a day to and from work I [I know there are different schools of thought on who actually makes gas prices go up, but whoever they are, I hope they rot in hell - this is ridiculous]).
But anyway, if anyone has any more suggestions on what this might be, feel free to chime in.