Thanks for the responses. Yes, all equipment is from TheRetrofitSource. And them turning on together was only an issue on my first 2 start up attempts, and hasn't repeated since.
Classy had me start by unplugging the high beam connector going from the Motocontrol 9007 relay harness to the projector. In doing this, I discovered 1 of the pins(and this was all my fault from me installing these) came out of the male end of the connector coming from the projector. Fixed that, but still unplugged both high beams.
Turned the lights on and bam, both sides running low beams nicely... No high beams. I reconnected both high beams connectors, turned on the lights, but then with the low beam headlights on, both projectors were in high beam mode. Turn on the brights and then both projectors instantly shut off together.
Classy got on the phone with TRS and found out about how switching around the 3 wires in the 9007 connector possibly being a sollution.
Today, I'm going to do this and post the results.
On a side note... Even though NONE of Classy's work was the problem here, he still stepped up and surpassed his already great reputation. I contacted him about this yesterday morning and he immediately replied and helped me troubleshoot this issue caused on TRS's end. And not thru email, but on the phone. He gave me instructions, answers, and had TRS on the phone faster than I could troubleshoot from my end. He went beyond "seller responsibility". Anyone going the retrofit route would be crazy not to pay Classy for his craftsmanship and customer service. This site needs to come up with an award for him!
Output is incredible, turned a lot of heads last night in Chicago. With the clear lenses, the cutoff line is very rich in its blueish purple color, and very crisp. I'll get some night time pics tonight and post them.