I see your argument and some evidence, i have been thinking about getting 5000k. Ill see what i get with the Headlights, You think 4500k fogs and 5000k headlights might look weird or no? As far as the color and brightness i want the brightest then i look for whitest. Either way im thinking 4300k/4500k DDM or 5000k and no higher. If i get a car im already think 3000k fogs and 5000k lows.
As for the projectors, on a car yes i would highly want to do retrofit but on this SUV i see that it has no glare in the head lights unless you look right into being on the same eye level or lower. These already have a cut off on it which is good so that i dont blind other people on the road.