women are nuts

[tazyboy28]

dont sweat it man women are... well theyre women they get pissed over nothing and hold onto it. that we cannot change

but everything will work out and honestly if the chick wants to end your marrige just like that over some constructive critisism, then id take the oppportunity to get out while its there. just me though

my sentiments exactly. . . especially if there not ur kids u got nothing to worry about. shoulda made her sign a prenup. u best believe im doin that siht.

[joshua_arndt]

Kids these days have no respect. I know growing up if i ever whined a little or talked out or turn, or heaven for bid i would interrupt adults talking, i would get my ass beat. I knew my place in the house. And to this day, i respect my parents, mainly my dad, for bringing me up that way. I plan to raise my daughter the same way. I hate how most parents today just worry about being there kids best friend. That comes with the respect as far as i'm concerned.

And if she leaves that's her problem. She will eventually come around and realize shes dumb. Thats the problem with marriages today, and woman in general, if something isnt how they picture it or they talk to one of there single friends and now she gets a wild hair up up her butt and she leaves. And who gets to pay for it? Definently not the woman. Coming from a previously divorced guy, all woman are nuts. You just gotta find one that is less nuts than you are.

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

yea Im just about over feeling bad about this ****
It came out that it has to do with the fact I dont wanna have another baby and she does But its like im 30 now I dont want a kid in my house when im 50

The sad thing is the kids in most areas they are good kids they do their chores and do decent in school Its just me they dont respect and i CAN not and WILL not deal with that ****

WHat ever i guess we are splittin up the dvds(700) of them i get a flat screen she gets a flat screen she gets the wii I keep the ps3 the cars are where we get messed up Im getting the gtp , Crown Vic and maybe the Dodge ram but id rather have my ****in chevy then the crown vic ohwell

I said id get married once tried that **** out didnt work IM DONE confirmed bachlor for LIFE

[gtpinsc]

I said id get married once tried that **** out didnt work IM DONE confirmed bachlor for LIFE

WIN... man i been there done that, was smart enough to not get married though.. spent 9 yrs with baby mama... been single for like 3 yrs now... i ****in love it... i can do what i want when i want without havin to listen to a bunch of **** from ANYONE. my theory is love is for the weak... im fine living alone with a lil NSA on the side.

[joshua_arndt]

I guess i just got lucky with my 2nd wife. Shes cool about everything, shes perfectly fine with me spending what i want on the cars, doesn't mind when i want to go out with the guys and have a few beers. She loves camping and just hanging out with us. We have the same beliefs on raising our daughter. Just saying there are women out there like this.

I love being married, I'm to lazy to have to go out and look for some strange.

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

my ex was good with almost every thing thats why i got married its a **** situation all the way around though im just glad im almost out of school so i can get back to work and get lost in 40+ hur weeks and ****

[joshua_arndt]

my ex was good with almost every thing thats why i got married its a **** situation all the way around though im just glad im almost out of school so i can get back to work and get lost in 40+ hur weeks and ****

i agree with getting lost in the work week. Thats what kept me sane through my divorce. I spent alot of time there. She still tried to drive me nuts though.. Just wanted to keep pushing that button... My ex knew what pissed me off and used it against me all the time.

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

yea mine was pushing buttons hard triing to make me snap i swear to god she wanted me to hit her wasnt falling for it tho

[Ricky21]

yea looks like its time to lose the married guy weight and start being a hit em n quit em type a guy

Amen borther

[tazyboy28]

its a damn shame is wat it is.

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

its life people dont take marriage seriously any more i think divorce within 5 years out numbers the ones that last now

[Spartan GL]

be like William Wallace

"FREEDOM!!!!!!!"

[blueguy]

be like William Wallace

"FREEDOM!!!!!!!"

Keep your head up man. Things will turn for the better...just gotta stay positive...even though the situation might look pretty disheartening.

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

heres the hard part there love there and i love the kids to death and the other house we own seriously isnt healthy thats why i bought another place so we could gut the other house and rebuild slowly

FOr now we are staying in the same house she gets the spare bedroom

Now she regrets making choices she made and cried most of last night any one on here that truely loves their gf/wife knows to here them cry hurts

I just dont know if i can forgive it got pretty bad and pretty hurtfull the other night and I dont ever want to go through that again

[oneil.GTP]

you didnt find the right woman. keep looking.

its blunt, but honest.

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

i know but im not a cold hearted asshat i wont put them back in that house so for now im a little stuck

[Warbeaver]

kids today are the reason i almost dont want to have any.....cuz i know i can raise them right, its just when they start getting these outside influences cuz other parents lack critical parenting skills and alot of them are just as immature as the kids.

My g/f has been spoiled her whole life, she is 22 and her parents still pay car payments, cc bills, phone bills, insurance, etc. Alot of the stuff she does I would never get away with doing at my house or around my parents....Granted, she is very smart, does well in school, got scholarships and is very active in college athletics, but i know its just all gonna bit me in the ass later when it comes to raising kids. I pay for my stuff myself while she gets eveything handed to her. I know she is gonna want to spoil the crap out of them while i'm gonna seem like the hard a** dad who makes their kids pay for cars, college, and phones. When me and her have arguments she gives me this line "its my stuff and i will do what i want with it". I'm afraid she will use that same crap with kids or something cuz they came out of her lol. I hope not, cuz everything is great between us but there are times where we almost want to strangle each other over stupid stuff. I can say she agrees with me about kids showing respect so at least thats not to worry about.

scares me about getting married, which will in the next couple years....

Torqued, your wife will come around. If she doesn't then thats too bad. It's her loss, and shes got some issues if she doesnt want her kids to have some respect towards others, especially elders/parents. sorry to hear it all man

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

the kids situation today is horrid The school they go to is a charter school basically free private school but because its free they intentionally build them where lands cheap in the ghetto and people living with in such a distance are able to get accepted faster and easier

Its bs there is a 2 year wait to get in the school and the accedemic portion is great but the kids there mostly black/and hispanic due to the area its in all low income aANd these kids are nuts i heard a little black kid call me a ***** and a cracker hes ****ing 8 his momma taught him real well
Im not a racist because i dont think its a race issue as much as a ghetto/income/mentality issue BUT WHAAT THE **** IS WRONG WITH THESE PARENTS if one of my daughters used a racial slur id beat her till she couldnt breath i swear

is wrong with people today

[Warbeaver]

if i get called a cracker im calling racist and suing

[TorqueAutoMotiv]

lol Id hate to se wht the kids of todays kids are gonna be like