Quote Originally Posted by badbrad View Post
regardless if something ever happened between me and my wife, my kids are 1st even her daughter that i raised as mine....when relationships don't work, the kids shouldn't have to wait for you to get urself together especially if the donor is a turd. your love life goes on the back burner. Think of it in the kids eyes, mom and dad not together, mom and dad get new byfriend/girlfriend.. opps we're mad and broke up ...finds new "friend".movin together....kid is f'ed up because parent can't evaluate a relationship for ****!!!Kids lose....parent looks for next "friend" ,,viscious cycle.
Yes I so agree with this! My parents are together and I tried SOOO hard to make it work with her dad! I would put up with him leaving us for weeks and sometimes months at a time not calling and then just showing up like nothing happend! I did it for over 6yrs! Then I finally woke up and relized wow! Me and her both don't need that! Again not saying he is a dead beat but he does have issues! Im not miss perfect I guess...I mean he says the reason he don't want to be with me anymore is because I bi*ch to much...welll when I have to BEG you for sex or to look at me..yaaaa....anyways! Thats awhole different story! I love sex..and I apperently am missing some inches for him...