Am I doing the right thing?

[SlowM90]

i know you don't know me but....... telling her mom was the wrong move in my opinion.. now that's just extra stress she's going to have to deal with. her mom's probably going to be on her case even more now. also, there's absolutely no way she should stay with him. is she just scared to be alone again? maybe you should talk to her about how being single is great and her next boyfriend will come out of nowhere.

Her mom is not on her case...And no he was not her first. Last night I think I actually got threw to her!!! He called her and was like "Im going to kill myself I cant handle this blah blah blah" I told her he is just saying that and if he does kill himself he had WAY more problems then YOU! I was in a relationship kinda the same..so she knows I know what im talkin about!!! I told her to me it aseems like he knows he can have her whenever and however! He kept yelling at her telling her she was SO mean to him and hurts him so bad! And she stood up and was like Well why do you wanna be with me?!?!!? Then he went to the whole killing himself. She hung up on him and didn't return his calls..after abotu a hour of him calling her she answered andthen it went from him going to kill himself to he loves her he just wants her in his life. Itold her if its ment to be yall will be! Just STOP talkin to him he has to relize he can not treat you this way! So the last time she has talked to him was at 9pm. Its almost 12pm now...And she SWORE to me she would tell me if she did talk to him. I REALLLLLLLLY hope this got threw to her!!!! Im just going to pray it did!!!!!!

[FoSHO99]

Her mom is not on her case...And no he was not her first. Last night I think I actually got threw to her!!! He called her and was like "Im going to kill myself I cant handle this blah blah blah" I told her he is just saying that and if he does kill himself he had WAY more problems then YOU! I was in a relationship kinda the same..so she knows I know what im talkin about!!! I told her to me it aseems like he knows he can have her whenever and however! He kept yelling at her telling her she was SO mean to him and hurts him so bad! And she stood up and was like Well why do you wanna be with me?!?!!? Then he went to the whole killing himself. She hung up on him and didn't return his calls..after abotu a hour of him calling her she answered andthen it went from him going to kill himself to he loves her he just wants her in his life. Itold her if its ment to be yall will be! Just STOP talkin to him he has to relize he can not treat you this way! So the last time she has talked to him was at 9pm. Its almost 12pm now...And she SWORE to me she would tell me if she did talk to him. I REALLLLLLLLY hope this got threw to her!!!! Im just going to pray it did!!!!!!

Good Job! I have a friend who gets really into his woman, controlling and just obsessive. Almost every breakup he's had has ended with them getting a restraining order on him and him on suicide watch for a week. You just get used to it and hope you never end up like that! lol

[NaturallySmashed]

Her mom is not on her case...And no he was not her first. Last night I think I actually got threw to her!!! He called her and was like "Im going to kill myself I cant handle this blah blah blah" I told her he is just saying that and if he does kill himself he had WAY more problems then YOU! I was in a relationship kinda the same..so she knows I know what im talkin about!!! I told her to me it aseems like he knows he can have her whenever and however! He kept yelling at her telling her she was SO mean to him and hurts him so bad! And she stood up and was like Well why do you wanna be with me?!?!!? Then he went to the whole killing himself. She hung up on him and didn't return his calls..after abotu a hour of him calling her she answered andthen it went from him going to kill himself to he loves her he just wants her in his life. Itold her if its ment to be yall will be! Just STOP talkin to him he has to relize he can not treat you this way! So the last time she has talked to him was at 9pm. Its almost 12pm now...And she SWORE to me she would tell me if she did talk to him. I REALLLLLLLLY hope this got threw to her!!!! Im just going to pray it did!!!!!!

haha sweet... lets me honest though.. that relationship is NOT meant to be lol hopefully everything works out