Ya, Thats why I never really told OMG DO NOT BE WITH HIM! I just told her that she needs to prove to him he can't be mean to her then come crawling back..But after what I have read I relize she is going to have to learn on her own! I figure...rmmm in about 1-2months she will move in with him and not go back to college and then she will prolly be back down here in about 3months cause he beat the crap outta her! But O well!!! You live and you learn and she will just have to do that!