Oh boy
I think, from my own perspective, there are several issues here. And for those of you that know me, well its long post time, LOL
1. Your anger/frustration issue.
You gotta get that under control. Im not an ex-marine, but I am ex-military and I remember the days that that status seemed to put some extra pressure on you to just crush people in the ground when they crossed you. Im reminded of that movie with the wrestler in it in which he said "Ive come to kick butt and chew bubble gum, and Im ALLLLLL out of bubble gum".
Seriously dude, this is not the answer to life. Take a step away from this. Just think of the impact on your life all the way around, legally and personally and the consequeces from school to say the least.
2. The distance between you and your girl
Look guy, if she is ignoring you in the way she is, then either she has no respect for you, herself, doesnt care for the relationship anymore or maybe all those. So now you have to ask yourself, is anything you do gonna change that? Second part to that question is how did you get there. Is there something missing from the relationship, something that she is looking for that you have not provided (emotionally, or whatever, minds outta the gutter folks). And dont be ashamed or embarassed to say there has been something she is looking for that you have not given, whatever it is. It happens, its part of the relationship process. Its nothing bad on you, its just the process of growing and adapting and learning.
3. The weakness in your relationship
This goes along with the above but the fact this is taking place is a clear sign there is a weakness in the relationship either from you or her or both, its irrelevant. And again, you have to ask yourself and her for that matter, is it something that is repairable and if so will she give you the time to do so. None of this is putting you down, its just a fact of life and relationships. These things happen, Ive had to address them when I was dating my wife and since we've been married its just part of it.
One book I HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend be read by anyone considering marriage and is useful in any relationship is one call The Five Languages of Love. Truly a revolutionary book when it comes to relationships.
Overall you need to step back and calm down. This is an extremely difficult time for you and will be trying and frustrating as you already know. You also need to ask yourself would you be reacting in this manner if the relationship had just grown apart and you two just were no longer interested in each other. I suspect you are like most guys and having a territorial response which is fine, but it becomes a serious matter if you act upon any of the things you have mentioned.
She is obviously playing a different double dutch game than you are and the question is who is interrupting whose rhythm? Better yet, were you two ever in the same double dutch game and on the same rhythm or were you both just skipping rope by yourselves and someone else has just come along and tangled up the show?
I mean no disrespect to you or her, but I have learned over the course of my life the more willing you are to be introspective and willing to face yourself and ask the hard questions of yourself and be honest about it, the better things go. It adds a new perspective and it often leads to better more sensable solutions.
