How to talk to this cute girl in my college class?

**00GT** · 03-13-2013

Originally Posted by EJOUIE

and this thread reminds me of another....

You should probably start avoiding leaves while driving just in case history tries to repeat itself.

I was thinking the same thing

**blakgtp** · 03-13-2013

**EJOUIE** · 03-13-2013

^^^^^

**blakgtp** · 03-14-2013

pic works fine for me..

**TexasTanker19kilo20** · 03-14-2013

No pic for me Sir.

**Schmidty** · 03-14-2013

Originally Posted by TexasTanker19kilo20

No pic for me Sir.

same

**SF9777** · 03-14-2013

Ya that pic does not work, hey ya ill check out the PM right now. I'll see tomorrow as ya no plan. Just going to go for it n see how things go. Just going to go for it and ask. If I get a no, hey o well I tried and just will see what happens. I just need to be positive and stay confident. I think I can do it hit i no for sure when I get to class ill be stunned and won't be able to do crap.

Hey ya I'm using tap talk so can't really keep track of threads like on the on computer. But ya like the other guy said ill need to find my inner Han. C - 3po is going to bring me down. I just need to do it like Han does it. Like a BOSS!! I'll see tomorrow no plan just seeing things through to the end. I just need confidence I just keep thinking she may not be interested in me

**Schmidty** · 03-14-2013

keep that negative **** out of your head! asking her if she wants to study or whatever is half the battle. and you're gonna win the battle so you're set!

**SF9777** · 03-14-2013

Easy for u to say, so really I can win it. Even if I fail to talk to her about stuff and just say if she like to study together.

I try so hard not to think about it but it gets to me and i get even more nervous since talking before class the whole class is outside so it gets nerve wrecking. But regardless I will do it. I want to be able to do it. Know I can I can do this and even if I get a no I know that I was able to do it. The only difficult part is doing it. **** I HATE THIS NERVOUSNESS.

**Schmidty** · 03-14-2013

taking the first step is the hardest step. this will be a life lesson either way. it builds character and maturity. you got it boss!

**TexasTanker19kilo20** · 03-14-2013

We need pics of the interest after all this HELP.

**Schmidty** · 03-14-2013

Originally Posted by TexasTanker19kilo20

We need pics of the interest after all this HELP.

i concur.. some how or another...

facebook? twitter? intagram? tumblr? myspace?

**SF9777** · 03-14-2013

Lol ya I first got to get this far. Well u have my mind set that whatever happens ill be asking to study together to her. I just need to keep confident. I just can't take the no but I'll just be myself even if she says no. And that's that me being nice n well of he says no o well next time then. I'm not a prick and won't be all mean afterwards. She can be mean but I'll be nice. I hope I have the confidants to do it

**LeadfootCJ7** · 03-14-2013

You have gotten some great advice here. I used to be similar to you around girls. Luckily I started noticing pretty early in college that when I was just relaxed and acted like myself it went fine. I tend to joke and be funny and girls loved that. When I relaxed that came through.

Another key thing I learned is ask them questions and LISTEN (don't spend the whole time telling them about you and trying to convince them you are awesome). Don't be creepy and try to find out every little thing about them, but ask a question and let them talk. Make note (mentally) of what they tell you. Later when you remember something, they love it.

**Schmidty** · 03-14-2013

Originally Posted by LeadfootCJ7

You have gotten some great advice here. I used to be similar to you around girls. Luckily I started noticing pretty early in college that when I was just relaxed and acted like myself it went fine. I tend to joke and be funny and girls loved that. When I relaxed that came through.

Another key thing I learned is ask them questions and LISTEN (don't spend the whole time telling them about you and trying to convince them you are awesome). Don't be creepy and try to find out every little thing about them, but ask a question and let them talk. Make note (mentally) of what they tell you. Later when you remember something, they love it.

^^ this

**SF9777** · 03-14-2013

Got it thanks, a friend of mine back in my junior year of high school told me that. She said I listened pretty well to people. I still do now I just tend to talk more than listen at times because of when I get nervous. I'm going to for it and well I hopefully I can do it. Well u can tell I'm into Star Wars so may for be with me.

**Jevik** · 03-14-2013

I'm shy in groups, or around women. I'm now married to a beatiful gal. Don't overthink it, listen, be yourself, and just go for it. And most important, relax. Take a couple deep breaths before talking to her. Be confident. Women like that.

**loopy smurf** · 03-14-2013

Simple...go up to her, lick your finger, then touch her shoulder and your own shoulder with the finger you licked, then say, "wow...we should go back to your place and get out of these wet clothes..."