Sorry to hear that Damojo. I watched my Grandfather die of Cancer (prostate) (we had our ups and downs over the years, but were very close when he passed) and its not anything I would ever wish on anyone...its a long, hard, painful road...All I can say is DON'T let him die in a hospital. LET HIM DIE AT HOME where he feels comfortable and SAFE...we did with my grandfather and I know he appreciated it...check into hospice care at home. I know in the end the hospice care my grandmother used just told her there is nothing more we can do for him or you and to keep coming is only costing you money unnecessarily. They explained how and when to give him the Morphine patches to keep him comfortable. he died a couple days later...I miss my Grandfather a lot....thankfully I still have my grandmother and we talk often about him...and there are no jerk relatives to worry about...but I have known others in your situation. Either way Don't feel like a thief...your not...your the protector of his things and I know he is glad he was able to give them to you....Enjoy and make the most of the precious time you have left with him and graciously accept anything else he offers to give you for safe keeping.
