Thread: How to talk to this cute girl in my college class?

Well ill give it a shot, i just need to build some confidence. I just dont know or think she would be interested in me. What signs should i look for when talking to her? Also i forgot to mention that there is one girl she started to talk to mainly because they were in the same group last week. But i dont think they do all that much, i just kept thinking i was a wuss not talking to her after class yesterday.

So you guys think i should ask her on tues or on thursday if we can study together? I was thinking thursday after class cause i know the week after on the thursday the 21th i think, we are having the mid term. And the class before on the Tues we have a timed writing/ prepare for the mid term thing. Im just so nervous to ask and what should i recommend instead if say she has work that day? Plus the weekend the campus is close and everything closes @12:00pm on Fridays.

I was thinking like talking to her more and more and introducing each other on tues like after class like "Hey i did not get your name" And stuff. Would that be a great time to ask her for her # or should i ask her to study first and then ask her # like after i tell if she would like too? And ask her on Thursday if she like to study together. BTW if she just happen to bring a friend , which i doubt and hope not, should i just go along with it with her and her friend? Also again what should i be looking for when talking to her to know she might me interested? Like eyes how would tell, or from the way she talks or something? And

You are over thinking this man...women like men with confidence so something as simple as introducing yourself to strike up a conversation and then asking to study together or go grab a coffee at the local starbucks...1 thing to always remember is it doesn't matter if she says NO...there is always more fish in the sea you just have to real them in..HAHA...I was shy and scared to talk to girls and after I relized there is nothing to loose being confident worked everytime!

What you said is really true when i think about it. There were 2 other girls i really liked and felt this way about. Never ended with a yes when asking them when eventually i asked them. Those two girls seem to be nothing compared to this girl. On beauty she crushes the other two. Which just goes to show what you said there are other fish in the sea. This is the third one i found and i could find more, i just hope this third one is a charm.

BTW just one thing, how do i tell if she is or is starting to get interested in me when i try to talk to her? (When i say try i mean do, there is this quote that keeps hitting me: "DO OR DO NOT, THERE IS NO TRY" - Yoda.

She probably feels just as nervious as you do. Of course she will say yes, why wouldnt she? Just be confident. Like I said before, I was in this same situation back when I was still in school, Now were engaged.

Eh don't get all caught on if you can tell if she is interested or not...if she is willing to study/ hangout with you then that is a start...if she doesn't want to...then she isn't interested or has a BF etc...if she says no don't act all weird and akward just say "ok thats cool just wanted to ask" from then always be nice to her and still say hello because she might change her mine...always remember to be confident be happy no matter what happens and do not! DO NOT! Be clingy...Act as if you have nothing to loose because you really don't!!!

Originally Posted by smoke14

She probably feels just as nervious as you do. Of course she will say yes, why wouldnt she? Just be confident. Like I said before, I was in this same situation back when I was still in school, Now were engaged.

Yeah my wife played hard to get then once I showed her I could hang with other girls she came back running lol

If a girl gives you signals she doesn't intend to follow through on then that's her prob and you can say sorry my bad and go bang her friend!

Got it, and if she says like she cant study on the day i mention cause of say like she says she has work. Then i should just ask her whenever she is free if we can? That might look like the obvious thing to say. I get not being clingy that's something i try not to do and seems to work too.

But ya, thats cool that you two are engaged now. That thinking way too far ahead if i say that would be cool to happen but ill give it a shot and just ask her on tues. It wont sound weird or bad if i ask her tuesday even after we get to know each others names on the same day does it?

LOL @ allllllll of this

This is all I have to say about this thread....

Originally Posted by LS1GTP

Hey buddy, don't ruin this guy's hopes and dreams.

Hey buddy,

I'll leave this here: eNotAlone: Relationship advice forum

Originally Posted by LS1GTP

No it won't.

Remember, keep it simple. Just go with the flow and you'll be fine.

Ill just take a shot and see how things work out.

Thanks for all your guys help

And @ the other two guys if ur trying to be mean than F U

Im not trying to be mean, I just dont ask car guys for girl advice I ask girls like Brandon.

relevant:

I get you, but i thought asking here was not that bad of an idea. Seems i was right cause lots of these guys helped out a lot. Except for Blue, seems he is always negative

Ive seen people ask this question on some other differ forums so i thought i ask here

Seriously, Id give just about anything to be in your shoes. Back in school trying to ask a girl out. Make the most of it, cuz you only live once. Before you know it this will all be over.