Give or sell all related items to a friend and stop carrying cash. If the woman's so interested in you quitting, there's things she can do to help you relax. I've read about them.
Also, maybe give up the accessory activity in favor of something else. If you always sat down and watched TV, you'll want it when you sit down to watch TV; maybe cook something, knit, get out to the pool hall, gym, play a video game, read a book...